By Jennifer McDougall, Staff Writer & Marketing Director at Passages Malibu
Why So Many Treatment Programs Fall Short
For decades, addiction treatment has been dominated by one message: you are powerless over your addiction, and you will always be an addict. For some, this approach provides comfort and community. But for many others, it creates a cycle of shame, relapse, and frustration.
At Passages Malibu, we believe there is a better way. Addiction is not a disease—it’s a symptom of deeper unresolved issues. By addressing the root causes through personalized, non-12-step therapy, individuals can achieve lasting freedom rather than living in a lifelong battle.
In this article, we’ll explore:
- Why traditional methods often fail.
- The obstacles that keep people stuck in addiction.
- How non-12-step therapy works at Passages Malibu.
- The Four Causes of Addiction—and how to heal them.
- Real solutions for building a life of empowerment.
The Obstacles People Face in Addiction Recovery
Recovering from addiction is not just about removing drugs or alcohol from your life—it’s about healing the underlying struggles that made substances feel necessary in the first place. Common obstacles include:
- Unresolved trauma from childhood or adult experiences.
- Stressful life circumstances such as financial strain, career burnout, or toxic relationships.
- False beliefs like “I’m unworthy,” “I can’t cope without substances,” or “I’ll never change.”
- Mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety.
- Shame and stigma that prevent people from asking for help.
Traditional treatment often overlooks these issues, focusing instead on group meetings and abstinence. Without healing what’s beneath the addiction, relapse is likely.
Why Non-12-Step Therapy Is Different
At Passages Malibu, we don’t label you an addict, and we don’t teach that you are powerless. Instead, our philosophy is built on empowerment, dignity, and healing.
Here’s what sets non-12-step therapy apart:
- Individualized treatment: Each client receives up to 70 one-on-one sessions per month with licensed therapists.
- Focus on healing root causes rather than managing symptoms.
- Holistic therapies that restore balance to the mind, body, and spirit.
- Privacy and personalization—no group meetings or forced labels.
- Long-term strategies for building resilience and preventing relapse.
This approach allows clients to leave treatment not just sober, but truly healed and thriving.
The Four Causes of Addiction
Our founders, Chris and Pax Prentiss, identified four primary causes of addiction. Every person struggling with drugs or alcohol is dealing with at least one of these underlying conditions:
- A Chemical Imbalance
- Brain chemistry plays a major role in mood, energy, and cravings.
- Therapy, nutrition, and medical care help restore balance naturally.
- Unresolved Events of the Past
- Trauma, grief, or abuse often drive people to self-medicate.
- Specialized therapies help release the pain of the past safely.
- Current Conditions You Can’t Cope With
- Stressful jobs, toxic relationships, or life transitions can trigger dependency.
- Life coaching and coping strategies build resilience.
- Things You Believe That Aren’t True
- False core beliefs like “I’m not good enough” can fuel destructive patterns.
- Therapy helps replace limiting beliefs with truth and empowerment.
By uncovering and healing these causes, the need for substances naturally disappears.
How Therapy at Passages Malibu Works
At Passages, treatment goes far beyond detox and abstinence. Our comprehensive program includes:
- Psychotherapy: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), trauma-informed therapy.
- Holistic healing: Yoga, meditation, acupuncture, massage, energy healing.
- Medical support: Safe detox and 24/7 nursing care.
- Nutritional therapy and fitness: Rebuilding physical health and vitality.
- Relapse prevention planning: Skills and strategies for long-term success.
Every program is tailored to the client, ensuring that therapy targets their specific root causes and personal goals.
Breaking the Cycle: From Powerlessness to Empowerment
One of the biggest obstacles people face in recovery is the belief that they are broken or diseased. Traditional programs reinforce this narrative, but at Passages, we reject it.
Instead, we teach:
- You are not an addict—you are a person who has been coping in harmful ways.
- You are not powerless—you have the ability to change your life.
- You are not defined by your past—you can heal and create a new future.
Clients leave Passages with confidence, clarity, and a renewed sense of self.
Success Stories: Proof That It Works
Over the past 20 years, more than 20,000 clients have experienced the transformative benefits of Passages’ non-12-step program. Many arrive after multiple failed attempts at traditional rehab, only to finally achieve lasting recovery here.
As one former client shared:
“I came to Passages broken, ashamed, and hopeless. For the first time, someone asked me why I was drinking—not just told me to stop. That made all the difference.”
A New Way Forward
Recovery doesn’t have to mean lifelong meetings, labels, or surrendering to a disease model. With non-12-step therapy, you can heal the obstacles holding you back, uncover the root causes of addiction, and step into a life of empowerment and freedom.
At Passages Malibu, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
📞 Call us today at (888) 397-0112 or visit PassagesMalibu.com to learn more about how our program can help you or your loved one.
